**In honor of Halloween, the one holiday where everyone tries to be something that they aren’t, I decided to write this post.**
We all have a variety of masks that each of us wears daily. These may be the identities that have been given to us, or ones that we have assumed over time.
As long as we recognize that we are wearing a mask we should be in good shape. But when the mask becomes a seeming reality for us, then that’s when trouble begins. We confuse the mask with the person, and if we are to consummate enough, so do those around us. Gradually the mask becomes a trap, and we become the mask.
I see so many people who wear masks in their every day lives. They attempt to be something or someone that they are not, failing to realize that sometimes who they are under the mask is better than any mask that they can attempt to wear. It’s easy to believe that we we really are is simply not good enough.
On the flip side not every use of a mask is negative, however. Masks can help us build our own defenses for the time we need them. They can give us power, or at least the illusion of fortitude, in a time when we may feel powerless. As long as the masks remain flexible and breakable, we can alter them at will, still realizing that we are not what we wear on our face as the mask we present to others.