I was on twitter today and I noticed the trending topic #playedout. As I read the various responses I was slightly amused by some and I was generally annoyed by the majority of them. Anyway, it caused to think about some things that are played out. One thing that I think is played out is… *drum roll*
Phat Asses (over all thickness for that matter)
Now I know what you’re thinking. I’m tripping right? Or maybe I’m delusional? How could I say that about the one body part on a woman that most men can’t resist? Hear me out.
I used to always find myself
lusting after in relationships with thicker women. It used to be something about a phat ass and double D breasts that sent me over the edge. I mean don’t get me wrong they still do but I have come to appreciate the petiteness of a woman. There is nothing wrong with a B cup (or a full A). I’m from the state of mind that all you really need is mouthful. Honestly, anything more than that is extra. You don’t need to have the body type to fill out a pair of apple bottoms if you just as sexy in a pair of 7 jeans. The only advantage I could imagine to having a bigger ass (from a guy’s p.o.v.) would be back shots. As someone who really enjoys that there really isn’t that big of a difference unless you going from say Pinky to Amy Winehouse. So for all you women who aren’t as blessed in that area, there is hope for you yet. Just joking (a little). [*1]
Next I think we all are in agreement that the majority of men are visual creatures. Reading this blog Lost in Brook Lynn (Magic City Dancer), she did a question & answer session with the manager of Magic City. Here is an excerpt of the dialog:
Do you ever stop caring that there are a bunch of nude women around you ?
-Definitely, it’s overrated. Most women look better with their clothes on.
Now this is coming from a man who sees probably the best looking strippers in the country. In my opinion ass dimples and booty do’s is not what’s hot in the streets. These are things that can look good in clothes but when those clothes come off all that thickness just isn’t as appealing.
Probably not so much
I don’t know maybe if more men thought like me then women wouldn’t feel the need to try to fool us into thinking they have what we desire (breast augmentation, butt pads, underwire pushup bras, etc.). I for one would be disappointed if I managed to be fooled by such tricks, deception and swindles. A classic example are of this is Nicki Minaj. If you were to see her without all that crap she wears she’s actually a pretty decent looking woman. I believe she has fallen victim to industry packaging and feels the need to sell sex. Either way, its rumored that she wears butt implants. Compare her to one of my celebrity crushes, Keri Hilson, who embraces her body and doesn’t feel the need to try to bamboozle us. I would roll with Keri any day of the week.
I don’t want this post to be misconstrued as me trying to degrade or put down my thicker sisters because that’s hardly the case. This post is just something that I thought has been over emphasized and is now getting kinda played.
With that I leave you with a quote from the philosopher Malice of Clipse [Counseling track ft. Nicole Hurst off their new album Till the Casket Drops]:
“I used to be all about a phat assthen I found a cutie with a flat assgood hair, nice smile but a flat ass2 outta 3, shit I couldn’t let that pass” [*1]
[*1] I am in no way saying I like flat asses. I’m actually more of an ass man than a breast man. Just wanted to put that out there.