When I first got into the dating game I had a problem. I liked girls but I never seemed to know when/if they liked me back. If I liked a girl I would take gestures of kindness as tokens of affection only to discover that they were just being friendly. Sometimes the signs of disinterest are blatant and sometimes they can be vague. Here are some signs that you can look for if you’re interested in a woman you’re not sure if she likes you.
~She never lets you do her any favors – or she repays them immediately. This is a sign she knows you’re into her, and she doesn’t want to feel indebted or obligated to you. Why? Because that could make her feel like she owes you something.
~She talks about other men. Unless it’s Idris Elba, or someone equally famous and unattainable, her talk about other men should cause you some concern. She’s clearly on the lookout for someone besides you, and this is a not-so-subtle way of letting you know that.
~She always brings her friends. Similarly , if you can’t get her to come out for some one-on-one time, there’s probably something wrong. There’s very little room for romantic “maneuvering” when she has her friends with her, which is why this is one of the signs she’s not interested in you.
~Her body language is stiff, not open to you. When a woman is interested, her body language is warm and welcoming. She stands in close proximity to you, wanting to be near.
If the woman of your desire displays any of these behaviors towards you then it’s probably safe to bet she’s probably not that into you. Have you ever been into a chick that you were sure was into you only to find out she only sees you as her “pal”?