I went out with a couple of friends this past Thursday to this local spot named Karma. As I entered the club I noticed it was fairly crowded so I did my usual routine and headed to the bar to purchase some drinks. After rounds of drinks were purchased I played my usual role of playing the background and people watching but really letting people watch me. One thing that I saw that night that I’ve seen far too often to not speak on is women who associate with mostly unattractive women to make themselves look better.
I know there might be some women are reading this and are thinking, “I would never do that, me and all my friends are bad chicks.” Not to generalize but you might be one of those ugly friends and your more attractive friend is using you. I’m fully aware that men and women sometimes have starkly opposing views on what makes a woman beautiful. I’ve had a woman ask me if I thought so and so was attractive and since I cannot tell a lie I tell her that I think her friend looks like a pomeranian with a weave and makeup. I will admit that some women probably think their friends look good because they allow their personalities to get in the way. Its hard for some women to separate inner beauty from purely physical appeal. Not me though. I know plenty of women who have great personalities but they fall short. When it comes to looks they got slapped with a certain type of stick. Does that make them bad people? Of course not. But that doesn’t negate the obvious.
Back to the original point. The woman who uses her less attractive friends as a method to make herself seem more desirable are actually pretty resourceful. Imagine if a man that a woman was dating told her he had a FICO score of 450 but then he said he was joking, his score was actually 600. Yeah that 600 isn’t looking so good but it sounds a hell of a lot better than that 450. Same thing with men because we all know that most men don’t care about things like a woman’s credit score when it comes time to settle down. Its basically the same thing. Yeah when he meets her and she’s surrounded by a group of 4’s, she might be perceived as a 7. Then dude meets her for the first date and his point of view has changed. His frame of reference had her at a 7 and now she’s more like a 5.5.
I can’t knock her hustle though. Everyone knows their weak points. Some women know they have bad skin so they cake on the makeup. Some have an A- cup so they wear push-up brassieres all their life. What better way to improve your overall physical appearance than by standing next to someone who doesn’t look at good as you. Guys does it bother you or can you see through the “strategy”? So ladies (like you would admit it) do you do this? Also, ladies have you come across any men who do this? I just really can’t imagine a man practicing this but I’ve heard stranger things.