I have debated with myself for the past two weeks on how I wanted to tackle this post without coming off as misogynist or woe is me. Finally I decided to just write it without worrying how I came off or how you [generally speaking] might perceive this. I’m speaking from the point of view of a man who is attracted to women but I’m sure women can take what I say and apply it to your own life and it would still hold true.
I like sex. Plain and simple. It feels good so that’s why I do it. I’m also good at it as well. I’m not saying that to brag. Well maybe I am but that doesn’t negate the fact that I like sex, it makes me feel good and in turn it makes women feel good. This post isn’t about my sexual prowess though.
I remember a time not too long ago before I started having sex. In the grand scheme of things I’ve only been having sex for about 8 1/2 years which isn’t that long considering I’m 29 years old. Life before sex was so much simpler. In college my biggest issues consisted of how I was going to pledge that fraternity or how well I performed on my midterms. In high school I was concerned with basketball practice and scoring high enough on SAT to get a full scholarship. Those points of contention just seem trivial compared to some of the concerns I’ve dealt with since I started dealing with women on an intimate level.
My next statement might not be popular or faddish with a lot of you but I think that in general sex is overrated. Speaking as a man the pursuit of pussy has been held in too high regard and a lot of times what you get out of it doesn’t necessarily match what you put in [||]. For moments of pleasure we’re willing to spend money we may or may not afford to spend, go places we have no business going and do things that are in direct contradiction to our character. Pussy can fuck up the most finely tuned moral compass.
Throwing blows, fighting demons, trying to stop from busting semen in an unfamiliar bitch.
I know my niggas feel this shit. How could I fuck her raw and I just met the hoe?
My dick took over, it ain’t never felt this wet before. I’m stressing in my mind but its way too late to stop it.
Made the shit so bad I had the condom in my pocket, let’s change the topic.
~ J-Cole (2Face-Friday Night Lights)
Want to talk about stress? Ever had a pregnancy scare? How many dudes have prayed to God that if she’s not pregnant that you’ll never have sex again? Oh nobody else? *shrug*
I’m not saying that all women have to offer is their sex. I love women and
everything most things about them. I love their company but it’s terrible. She has beautiful eyes, and her hair smells like cinnamon [5 points if you can name that movie without Google]. Lately I’ve just wondered how much less complicated my life would be if it didn’t involve sex. Where am I going with this? I have no idea but I am starting to second guess the importance of sex in my life at this point.