Game. Some people have it. Some people don’t. What’s crazy is when people think they have it but they really don’t. My twin Max wrote a post over at her spot about snooping that gave me much thought. Click here to check it out.I’m going to go in on a couple of different topics concerning snooping from a couple of different perspectives.
Max’s first point and second points cover someone who snoops through your things and then confronts you over something that they found from snooping. I will put this disclaimer out there. In my youth and ignorance I have snooped through a diary. It wasn’t like I went looking for it but the fact that it was in plain view wasn’t an excuse for me to violate someone else’s privacy. That’s not my point here. My point is that my privacy has been violated. It’s not a good feeling at all. To even give someone the opportunity to go through your stuff means that you trust them to some level in the first place. Even though it doesn’t feel good to have your privacy violated I refuse to give a fuck for the most part. See I’m a firm believer that you’ll always find what you’re looking for. If you want to look through my shit, then I hope you have fun with whatever you find.
Max’s third point is person that has infringed upon someone’s privacy calls up the third party. Yeah you probably think this is going to be about you. Well guess what? You’re right. Now I can’t say that I’ve ever thought about calling up or confronting some guy over a girl I was seeing. For what? Now imagine my surprise when I get a message saying that a friend’s boyfriend might be contacting me or confronting me because I converse with her. My initial reaction was I wish a nigga would walk up on me talking about what is your relationship with my girl. True story, that’s happened to me before. Only thing it wasn’t his girl. She was more my girl than his girl. I digress.
Here’s what I don’t recognize. Snooping. Its just not cool. It makes you look insecure and diffident. Also, I don’t recognize confronting third parties. What happens inside your relationship is your business. If you have a problem with your significant other then I suggest you take it up with them.