Game Recognize Game

Game. Some people have it. Some people don’t. What’s crazy is when people think they have it but they really don’t. My twin Max wrote a post over at her spot about snooping that gave me much thought. Click here to check it out.I’m going to go in on a couple of different topics concerning snooping from a couple of different perspectives.

Max’s first point and second points cover someone who snoops through your things and then confronts you over something that they found from snooping. I will put this disclaimer out there. In my youth and ignorance I have snooped through a diary. It wasn’t like I went looking for it but the fact that it was in plain view wasn’t an excuse for me to violate someone else’s privacy. That’s not my point here. My point is that my privacy has been violated. It’s not a good feeling at all. To even give someone the opportunity to go through your stuff means that you trust them to some level in the first place. Even though it doesn’t feel good to have your privacy violated I refuse to give a fuck for the most part. See I’m a firm believer that you’ll always find what you’re looking for. If you want to look through my shit, then I hope you have fun with whatever you find.

Max’s third point is person that has infringed upon someone’s privacy calls up the third party. Yeah you probably think this is going to be about you. Well guess what? You’re right. Now  I can’t say that I’ve ever thought about calling up or confronting some guy over a girl I was seeing. For what? Now imagine my surprise when I get a message saying that a friend’s boyfriend might be contacting me or confronting me because I converse with her. My initial reaction was I wish a nigga would walk up on me talking about what is your relationship with my girl. True story, that’s happened to me before. Only thing it wasn’t his girl. She was more my girl than his girl. I digress.

Here’s what I don’t recognize. Snooping. Its just not cool. It makes you look insecure and diffident. Also, I don’t recognize confronting third parties. What happens inside your relationship is your business. If  you have a problem with your significant other then I suggest you take it up with them.


4 thoughts on “Game Recognize Game

  1. Divine

    LMAO @ the clip. That was one of my favorite episodes. As for everything you said I CONCUR. Truth is I have had my diary read before and as wrong as I had been I was so pissed. Even funnier is the dude had the audacity to write a comment and then proceed to tell some folks as if they were going to do something to the other person. I mean really how pathetic are you. On the flip side I have snooped and I boy was I pissed but til this day I never confronted the person because at the end of the day I had no right to do what I did. It would be different if something fell out of a pocket while I was cleaning but looking in said pocket intentionally….well you get what you are looking for.

  2. Ni-Ni

    Hilarious clip!!
    Ok my comment I wanted to make earlier is that I agree with you… When you go looking for something, you can’t get mad if you find something. Man, I’ve done this once and I won’t do it again. I was hurt… It lead to an argument ultimately causing trust issues which lead to failure of the relationship. I also agree with the details of the relationship should be kept between the two unless one fears that they are in some kind of harm or danger. I think it deals with Loyalty.
    Whether or not someone will snoop depends on the balance between the trust and honesty in the relationship. If the person is always honest and upfront about how they feel and what they do and you trust what they say then violating their privacy is not an option.

  3. Corrin

    PC I love the post! Snooping is an invasion of privacy that disrupts the natural flow of things. When you violate someones privacy it makes it hard to trust you. I was always taught trust is like a a mirror once broken you can try to put it back together but it will never be the same and their will always be reminders of the brokenness*! I have friends who go through emails,bank accts, fb,you name it and they have gone through it and every time I ask “WHY?” “for what?”. If you find what your looking for then your gonna be pissed and if you don’t find anything your gonna be pissed that you snooped. In the end it’s just not worth it to me. I had all my ex’s info ss,passwords,acct info,etc but he gave me that info to me b/c he trusted me to do what i needed with it and nothing more.I can honestly say I have never snooped on my significant other but I have thought about it!

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