When it comes to popular opinion, especially when compared to other men, I usually go against the grain. For instance, I wrote a post called Big Booty Judy and received a lot of flack for it. I really can’t help how I feel. If I have a certain opinion, I’m not going to suppress it just because it’s not the most popular. With that said I have another opinion I want to share.
I’ve been living in Nashville for approximately seven years. My second year here I had a roommate (who is from Miami). One random Wednesday my roommate and I were watching some random Real World/Road Rules challenge on MTV. They zoomed in on Coral. If you don’t remember her, this is what she looks like:
When they zoomed in my roommate said: “Damn she’s fine.” My response was: “Excuse me?’ After a long debate I realized that when dudes from the South refer to a woman as “fine” they are complimenting her body and her body only. Being from DC, I’m used to a “fine” woman as one who has the physical total package. I wouldn’t exactly call Coral’s face pretty. She has a nice body but she’s far from fine. I guess that’s where the disconnect is when I look at my viewpoint versus other guys.
As a man when I first see a woman and size her up I start with her face. Not her ass. Not her breasts. Her face. This includes her lips, teeth, bone structure and eyebrows (yes her eyebrows). I do this because I believe no matter how bad a woman’s body may be if she is unfortunate looking then I can only be so attracted to her. Sure her “assets” enhance her might her beauty but without her face as a foundation then overall she’s not that attractive.
Let me tell you what goes on in the average man’s mind when he sees a woman with a ridiculous body but a sub-par face. He’s thinking: “She’s not that cute but with a body like that I have to see what’s she’s fucking like.” I can say this because I’ve been there. Let me tell you a quick story. There was this one woman who went to school with me. She was cute but she what really attracted to me her was her body. Every time I saw her I imagine what it would be like to give her ultimate backshots. Eventually I got her in bed. Bump.On.A.Log. What’s the use of having a fantastic body if you don’t know how to use it?
One thing that will hold value is a pretty face. While those plush titties might feel good during those moments of lust, if you don’t find her attractive from the neck up then once you get that nut up out you the feelings you had before soon start to fade. Now if you find that woman more tantalizing then I’d be willing to wager that you feel better about yourself afterward.
I know that once again this opinion might not be too popular but a pretty face >>>> a great body. Nice bodies come a dime a dozen. There’s mad busted girls walking around with big ass titties and phat asses but how many truly pretty girls do you encounter on a day to day basis? Now if you can find a pretty girl with a banging body….