When it comes to dating and the opposite sex I don’t think a lot like other men that I know. I say this because I while out this past weekend I noticed things about different women that I came across and I wondered to myself “Do most guys notice things like this about women?” I quickly came to the conclusion that they probably didn’t.
I’ve written about things about women that turn me on. Things that turn me off. I think you all know my stance on face or intelligence versus body. If not check it out, here , here and here. So I’ve accepted the fact that what might attract most men to a certain woman might not make me attracted to her as well.
Let’s say I’m at a party and a woman catches my eye. When I first observe her I take her in from head to toe. First thing I notice is her height. I’m a little above average height so I happen to think the perfect height for a woman is between 5’7-5’9. Now I know that most women don’t fall into this category so I would never hold that against a woman.
Next I move to her face. Yes, that’s one of the first things I check out. I never understood how dude’s check for bodies first. If you think of physical traits as resources, a pretty face would be gold (in high demand) titties and ass would be aluminum (most abundant metal on Earth). I mean aluminum is pretty useful and convenient but you can find it on any grocery store shelf. When dissecting a woman’s face I look at things like her eyebrows, skin (health not complexion), dimples (if any) and her overall mouth (lips, teeth).
Now if her face is on point then I move on to her body. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want a woman who has a thin waist with a healthy portion of titties and ass. If she doesn’t have one or the other or even both its still not something that would discount her in my book. Honestly, the first thing I try to size up is if she works out. I work out often so I kind of expect other people to do the same or at least look like you’ve seen a gym recently. A lot of women make the assumption that when men check out their bodies they are only looking at their assets. I love legs. Especially if they are nicely shaped and they are accented with a nice pair of heels.
Speaking of heels. I notice a woman’s accessories. Yes accessories.
If I look down at her shoes and they’re busted? Yikes. I notice bags. Shoes. Jewelry. Makeup (lack thereof or too much).
Why do I pay attention to things like accessories where most men don’t? Simple. Looking back at every single one of my ex-girlfriends I can say they all had one thing in common. They were bad bitches. And when I say bad I mean they were attractive and had a great sense of fashion/style. I’ve accepted that this is the type of woman I am attracted to.
So this is what goes through my mind when I check out a woman. All of this happens within the span of 5-10 seconds without staring or direct eye contact. What goes through your mind when checking out someone of the opposite sex?