“This here celibacy thing…Lawd, just got something over me”
Its no secret to readers of this blog that I like sex (I have a sexy post coming soon). Today I wanted to delve into something sex related but sort of anti-sexy. The C-word. Yes that’s right celibacy. Even as much as I like sex I’ve tried to go toe to toe with celibacy. My fight lasted about as long as late 80’s Tyson fight. I don’t know if I would or could go the celibate route again. Perhaps under the ideal situation. I want to play a game [Jigsaw voice]. I’m going to present three short scenarios and y’all let me know if you would become celibate in order to be with that person. Oh and [guys] I don’t mean that faux celibacy where you make someone believe your not having sex when you’re getting it on the side.
Lets say you’ve had a thing for a wo/man for years. Things never worked out because circumstances were never right. You still really like them. I mean you really like them. It seems like your stars might have finally aligned. They hit you with the bombshell. They’ve been celibate for the last 5 years. They don’t plan on having sex again until they are married. This is someone you really like. Honestly, you weren’t thinking about sex with this person before the celibacy issue was brought up. Ok more realistically, you weren’t thinking about sex much. What do you do?
You’ve been with your significant other for 3 years. You’re now engaged. The wedding isn’t until a year later. They want to abstain from sex until you’re wedding night. You’ve already been fucking like rabbits. Do you respect their wishes or try to convince them to do otherwise?
Your girlfriend/boyfriend of 2 years comes to a spiritual epiphany. They now feel that fornication is wrong. Well they always thought it was wrong but now they are trying to live their lives more in accordance to God’s word. I mean they have their right to do what they want but you also have a right to leave them. I mean who’s going to be the douche and seem like you were only with a person because of their sex. That’s wrong? Isn’t it?
So of these three scenarios which are you most likely to agree to celibacy? None? All three? Have you ever considered celibacy?
**** I mean celibacy in the form of voluntarily abstaining from fucking. If you just can’t get any then that doesn’t count.****